Men’s Rites of Passage

For most men, the question of what it means to be a man is perplexing. Most men have a longing for the support and guidance of other men in their journey towards masculinity, maturity, and a deeper experience with the divine. In ancient cultures initiation rites and vision quests were used to help boys make the journey into adulthood.

Opening the door to this journey can start with the Men’s Rites of Passage (MROP) retreat. This retreat can help awaken men to the adventure and mystery of their own masculinity, their deep spirituality, their potential for leadership, and their life’s purpose.

Living a shallow unexamined life is an empty experience. The Journey of Illumination begins with the age-old traditions that teach the five things every man needs to learn before he can fully engage in the adventure and mystery life will bring. MROP opens the door to the adventure.

The retreat is a five-day / four night, deeply prayerful and soulful experience that builds on the classic patterns of male initiation through simple and moving rituals and teaching. Each day includes participating in group prayer, major teachings on central masculine spirituality themes, quiet time for reflection, and sharing in the context of a “home group.”

Men are asked to come with a willingness to participate from beginning to end and not as an observer. All participants begin at point zero with no agendas to live up or down to. All that is required is for a man to come with a “beginner’s mind” and the readiness of a young novice seeking wisdom. Initiation, like life itself, is not a spectator’s sport.

This is not about religion but about spirituality, about age old traditions that guide us into manhood, about coming to trust that there is something much greater at work in our lives than we could ever imagine.

Below is a listing of Men’s Rites of Passage opportunities for 2018.

Arizona Men’s Rites of Passage
April 25 – April 29, 2018
Aravaipa Canyon, Arizona
Contact: Al Selder

New Mexico Men’s Rites of Passage in partnership with Texas Chapter
May 23 – 27, 2018
Ghost Ranch, New Mexico
Contact: Bruce Clay

Austria Men’s Rites of Passage
May 30 – June 3, 2018
Wels, Austria

United Kingdom Men’s Rites of Passage
July 25 – 29, 2018
Bield at Blackruthven
Contact: Brian McMullen

Illinois Men’s Rites of Passage
August 8 – 12, 2018
Pilgrim Park, Illinois
Contact: Bob Colaresi

Australia Men’s Rites of Passage
August 21 – 25, 2018
Contact: Steve Freeman

New York Men’s Rites of Passage
September 5 – 9, 2018
Frost Valley, New York
Contact: Michael Dunne

Czech Republic Men’s Rites of Passage
September 12 – 16, 2018
Contact: Pavel Hrdina

Click here to download the 2018 Men’s Rites of Passage Flier.

Men's Rites 2018


What the MROP is…

  •     A personal discovery about masculine spirituality and ‘the Holy Mystery.’
  •     A time to savor the healing and awesome power of nature.
  •     A process to address issues of loss, grief, and relationships with our father, other men, and others.
  •     An opportunity to examine life’s priorities and ask courageous questions about your ‘next step.’
  •     An invitation to listen to the ‘quiet voice of God.’
  •     A chance to return to life with a renewed commitment to your gifts.

What the MROP is not…

  •     A traditional lecture-based retreat.
  •     An informational workshop about men’s spirituality.
  •     A sensitivity training or deprivation experience.
  •     A threatening process that requires participants to engage in anything strange or unsafe.
  •     A test of physical stamina.

Videos about Men’s Initiation and the MROP

In Why Males Need Initiation, Fr. Richard Rohr shows how primal societies have demonstrated that cultural survival is dependent on personal spirituality. Unfortunately, the proven way to lead males on this journey has been lost to the West for a thousand years. Fr. Richard addresses the reality that if men are not led through an inner journey of powerlessness, they will inevitably misunderstand and abuse power.