First Rites: Young Men Rising

Moving from boyhood through adolescence has never been easy. These days, it can be downright treacherous. Life can feel tough and lonely sometimes. It’s hard to know what’s real in a world full of negative stereotypes and pressure to fit into somebody else’s narrow definition of masculinity. Without intentional rites of initiation, guided by elders, guys often resort to risky behaviors to prove themselves.

At this camp, you’ll find safe, meaningful ways to rise to the challenges of being a young man. By spending three days in nature, you’ll build real bonds with other guys your age and authentic men by overcoming challenges, playing games, and discovering what it means to be a young man rising.

You’ll Walk Away With:

• Greater self-awareness

• Boosted self-confidence

• Increased readiness to face life's challenges

What to Expect

• Outdoor Camping: If nature is new and a little scary, don’t worry; we've got your back with special programs and mentoring.

• Teamwork and Games: Practical tasks, team challenges, and loads of games. It’s fun, experiential learning at its best.

• Real Talk: Build trust and communicate honestly about what matters in your life.

• Supportive Staff: A crew of experienced men, many fathers and grandfathers, is here to listen to you, challenge you in healthy ways, and support your discovery of what’s authentic for you.

Are you ready to rise?

This is your journey. If you or your parents have questions or concerns, reach out for a conversation with an Illuman staff member. Let us assure you: Illuman dads up and down the East Coast have driven up to 10 hours to bring their sons to First Rites—and are glad they did!

Event Details:

Who it’s for: Boys aged 13-16

Cost: $400 (scholarships available)

Location: Rolling Ridge, 691 Christ Church Road, Harpers Ferry, West Virginia

Dates: October 16-18, 2026

Questions? Contact Daniel Harris at youngilluman@icloud.com