Advanced Council and Mirror Training 2026
Conflict Engagement and Shadow
All religions – in original form – aim to recognize and recover the divine image in all people and things. The goal is to mirror others faithfully, deeply, and fully, until all beings know who they are.
Richard Rohr, The Universal Christ
The Purpose of Council & Mirroring
A young child cannot know that he or she is invincibly lovable just for who they are. Their innate self-love must be mirrored back to them by father, mother, and others – which, if done well, becomes their self-esteem. But under the stress of modern society, parents fail to mirror their children anywhere near well. To not be mirrored well is the primary wounding of all individuals.
The purpose of Council is to recover the mirroring which was lost on us as children. Advanced Council and Mirror Training is an Illuman Journey program aimed to rigorously train men in the art of mirroring others within the safe container of council. At the heart of the training is personal development of the participant. The theme of this immersion is: “Conflict Engagement and Shadow Work”.
The core training will be a five-day in-person immersion in the spectacular desert wilderness of Aravaipa Canyon, AZ. Council facilitation and mirroring will be practiced in large and small group format as well as one-on-one. The ultimate intention of mirror training is to become intimately attuned to your comrades in council, and to all others in your daily life.
Training will take place in the backdrop of the Sonora desert amidst the natural beauty of wild desert land – the wilderness being the ultimate mirror of the true Self. In addition to council work, participants will engage in various wilderness practices, ceremonies, rituals, and wanders into the beauty of the physical world and the underworld of psyche, all in the name of connecting with soul.
Preparation for the in-person immersion will comprise six council sessions on Zoom. The themes are as follows:
Trauma and the Story of Conflict - Locating trauma in conflict situations and understanding how it affects our experience.
Listening with the Heart; Observing with Clear Eyes – Developing compassionate listening while seeing clearly.
The Gifts of Shadow and Projection – Reclaiming the parts of ourselves that have been disowned.
Sitting in the Tension: The Third Way - Allowing the tension of opposites to pull us open creates space for a third way – the transcendent function.
Integration Work: Forgiveness, Repentance, and Repair - Healing those places we have harmed in ourselves and others.
Engaging Conflict with the Heart of a Warrior - Facing our growth edges with a trusted conflict partner.
The program will finish with four Zoom council sessions after the in-person immersion.
If you have further specific questions, please contact John Lew at gjohnlew@gmail.com.
PROGRAM IS NOW FULL. Future applications will be added to a waitlist.
Dates & Times
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Feb 17, 2026 5-6:30 PM Pacific
First council session. Subsequent council sessions will be every other week thereafter. Council sessions are by Zoom.
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May 4-8, 2026
In-person immersion, Aravaipa Canyon, AZ. Accommodations in either the ranch house or camping are available.
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May 12, 2026 5-6:30 PM Pacific
First of four final council sessions, every other week, ending on Jun 23, 2026. Council sessions are by zoom.
Our Guides
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Terry is the co-founder with his wife Anne of an intentional community in Oakland, California called Canticle Farm, living and learning at the intersection of faith-based, social justice-based and Earth-based activism. He has practiced law for thirty years and is especially interested in the role trauma and conflict play in personal and organizational development. In particular, he has explored how trauma integration and shadow work can transform relationships and deepen the social field. Terry attended the Franciscan School of Theology, is trained in Nonviolent Communication and facilitates the Work That Reconnects. Terry did his Rite of Passage with Illuman in 2007 and currently serves as a Trustee. He has experience in youth, men’s, and elder’s rites, as well as various faith-based initiations.
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John is a wilderness guide who revels in depth psychology and the wilderness of nature and soul. He is trained in the Wild Mind work of Animas Valley Institute, as a Vision Quest guide with the School of Lost Borders, and is currently a Jungian Analyst in training at the CG Jung Study Center in Los Angeles, CA. He is a lover of depth analysis, the wisdom traditions, mysticism and esoteric religions, dreams and deep imagination, and the symbolic life. His sense of adventure is a wander into the underworld, an encounter with Self and Mystery, and the pursuit of wholeness for the unfolding of the world. His passion is to know you deeply, to be in relationship with both humans and “more-than-humans”, and to live fully alive. He did his Rite of Passage with Illuman in 2014.